Every
segment of every culture has them: people you either love
or
hate. There’s no middle ground, no equivocation, no
take ‘em or leave ‘em. Take a poll to identify
the most loved and most hated people in a
segment of society and these individuals will most likely
end up near the top of each list. Damon Stoudamire is just
such a person. Love him or hate him, there’s an indefinable
something he brings to the table that just can’t be
ignored.
Without doubt, Damon has made many personal
decisions that boggle the mind. He hasn’t always
used sound judgment in the company he’s kept, in
his off-court activities, nor in the way he’s packed
his belongings. There have been times when we’ve
all cringed at the latest Damon headlines. Some cringed
in embarrassment, some in empathy. There is, of course,
an old saw dealing with sins and stones, but we needn’t
go there at this time.
On the flip side of the conundrum that
is Damon Stoudamire we get glimpses of a man who truly
loves his community, a man who gives of his time and
himself unselfishly. We see a man who works with and
for children and the less advantaged. We see a player
who always kept his head in the game even when he found
himself at the very end of the
bench. For every negative story there has always been
a positive story for those who wanted to find it.
On the court the contradictions are
just as sharp. Many will talk about Damon turning the
ball over too much; others will note that his assist
to turnover ratio has always been commendable. Some will
say he dribbles too much and takes too many shots, while
others will point out the weak game plans of the last
few years and the facts that Damon was always a shooter
and that the Blazers’ management knew that
when they traded for him. Those who care to dig will
note that he had more assists per game and scored more
points per game before he became a Blazer and will conclude
that he sacrificed his own stats to become a Blazer and
to return to his own hometown. There are, in short, good
arguments to be made on both sides of the issue.
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Like
everyone else, I have my own point of view. It seems to
me that we, as a society, like to pigeonhole ourselves
into our preconceptions. In the sports world that means
football players are big and jockeys are small, chess players
wear glasses, golfers wear ugly pants and basketball players
are very tall. Now and then a person comes along and challenges
our concepts. Damon, at 5’ 10”, is just such
a person. When you are the shortest person on the court
by a good 5 to 6 inches, you had better be something special.
Damon Stoudamire, love him or hate him, is something special.
As much as any other person on Earth, I like to root for
the underdog. Damon Stoudamire, because of his height (or,
more to the point, his lack of it), is an underdog.
I have cringed at some of his bad moments,
just like everyone else. I’ve wondered what he
could possibly have been thinking in that airport, and
I’ve wished he could have fulfilled a little more
of that promise he showed ten years ago.
I have also cheered when he was finally
let into a game with three minutes to play, after sitting
on the bench for 45 minutes, and found a way to help
pull out the win. I have been happy for him when he came
back from a year of oblivion to post his best two years as a Blazer. Yes, I
wish he could have been that productive during the winning years, but I’ve
also been proud of the underdog who didn’t give up on himself when others
did, and who didn’t give in to the pressure to just throw in his hand
when times were the blackest. In short, Damon has my respect.
I’m not going to miss Damon, but
that's because I have my League Pass and I will watch
a few more Memphis games than I normally would, just
to see the Mighty Mouse. I began this by talking about
polarizing people. Damon is without a doubt one of those
people. In retrospect, I think it should be noted that
the one thing all polarizing people have in common is
that they are all interesting people. There are worse
things a person could be.
- Ken Fuller
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